“I’m a single dad and back in shape again. I’m ready to start dating. My kids are advising me not to post shirtless selfies on dating apps and social media. Women always say, “If you got it, flaunt it!”, but when men do that we get trolled and made fun of. I think there is a double standard there don’t you? Do women find shirtless, mirror selfies attractive? Am I correct about the double standard?”