“I am about to join an online dating site. My friends and I had brunch on Saturday and disagreed about what pictures I should post. Half of my friends say I should post filtered pics where I am dressed to the nines and looking amazing. My other friends say I should dress down and post plain pictures. They say doing this will attract men, who want me for more than just my looks. My other friends say posting attractive pictures will draw a better class of men. What should I do? Which group of friends are right?”

“My 16 year-old son has a crush on one of the most attractive young women at his school. He wants to ask her out for Valentine’s Day. I think she’s out of his league. I also heard she may go on a date with the school’s star quarterback. Should I tell my son what I know or allow him to ask her out and possibly experience heartbreak? I’m not sure what would be best. What should I do? “

“I am planning to propose to my girlfriend on Valentine’s Day with a ring I originally bought for my ex-fiance. It’s an expensive and beautiful ring that I wouldn’t be able to afford today. My older sister says it’s bad luck that I’m proposing with my ex’s ring. She also says it’s tacky. My younger sister says it’s fine as long as my girlfriend doesn’t find out. Am I in the wrong for proposing with an old ring? It’s either the more expensive old ring or the less expensive new ring? Does it even matter?”