“My girlfriend desperately wants me to propose to her on Christmas morning. I have a ring, but am holding off until another day. My friends and family are disappointed. They don’t understand that if I give her the ring on Christmas, it’s considered a gift and hers if we break up. My sister says I’m wrong for basing the proposal on things that haven’t happened and money. I disagree and think marriage is part love, part business. Am I in the wrong?”

“My boyfriend and I got into an argument yesterday about whether or not a gift card is a good holiday gift. He plans to get me several for Christmas. I told him that as much as I like gift cards they are a cop-out during the holidays because they show no effort. He says I’m wrong and that they are great because I can buy whatever I want. Who’s right… me or him?”