My husband and I were at marriage counseling the other night when our counselor asked us if we are attracted to other people. He was trying to see if that is the root of our problems or if one of us is unfaithful. There was a deafening awkwardness in the room as we were about to answer. Just at that moment, our hour-long session ended. Our car ride home was the most uncomfortable 30 minutes of our lives. Neither of us said anything. My gut tells me that my husband isn’t cheating, but that both of us are attracted to other people. Is that wrong when you’re married? Is it a form of cheating? Is it normal? When I’m asked about this at my next counseling session should I lie?

I am 14 and am writing to you because my parents removed my door from my bedroom. They did not give me any good reason as to why they did it nor did I give them a reason to do it. I think they are wrong and should put my door back until I do something wrong that makes them distrust me. I think they are nervous because I have a girlfriend. My mother says the door was removed to prevent any problems. I believe I am entitled to my privacy. Should my parents have removed my door?