Relationship Wednesday 1-13-21

Dear Heather and Poolboy,

I am being called a liar because some people think I am not an honest online dater. I am 31 and have three kids. My profile says I don’t have any. I do this because I attract better-looking and more successful men when I don’t mention that I have kids. Some of my friends and family say it’s wrong. They say I’m dishonest and leading men to believe something other than the truth. They don’t understand some men think kids are baggage. Am I a liar? Is it wrong that I don’t mention my kids. When I do, it’s usually on the third or fourth date.